I feel that at some point everyone does though a mindset of nothing matters anymore and I felt that when my dad passed away. To me without him being here, nothing matter to me, not my job, not my health and not life. I lost a part of me when he passed. The day I had to return to work after his passing was a hard day for me. I felt like I shouldn’t be there and the world is still going while he is not here. So that day I left early and when home. To help you cope and sleep I had to drink a lot. This helped me feel better and sleep. I had a house and bills to pay for so I knew that sooner than later I had to go back to work.
Even though it is hard losing a close family member, the one thing that I had to do is move on. I can’t be stuck in this moment because the world is still going. It took some time but I slowly went back to work and stop drinking, I didn’t need to drink anyone. So how does the story helps you with changing you mindset on nothing matters.
How do I get out of the mindset that nothing matters?
These thing can help as they helped me. Something in your life matters and needs you. You can be friends or family and someone you know or a coworker. You health matters, your life matters and loves God you. My dad is not here, my father in law fills in that void that I had so I believe that God gives you things that you have lost. If you have kids, they matter to you . The one thing to help changed my mindset that nothing matters is that I prayed to God for help. God started working on me showing me that everything is going to be ok and I needed to trust him. Now that I have a wife and son, they matter so I have to change the way I think and put them first.
Something does matter to you, you just have to find that one thing but praying to God does help show you the way.
